Bloggers are spoiled, self-indulgent narcissists who don’t know how to behave
Thursday, April 12th, 2007I read this journalist’s POV in response to the Blogger’s code of conduct :
Tony Long, Wired News, The Blogosphere, Where a Tawdry Culture Goes to Die
Much like Long’s analogy “you can put earrings on a hog but it’s still a hog”, I agree with what my grandmother similarly used to say : “what do you expect from a pig but a grunt?” Some people, and sadly it’s more people than you and I would care to admit, just have no clue what proper conduct is – on OR off line.
Or do they?
I believe that it’s easy to KNOW what the right thing to do is, but it takes a better and bigger person to DO the right thing. Especially on the web. The anonymity and disconnection we can feel online empowers some of us to take risks such as posting outrageous comments, publishing explicit videos, or spreading unfounded rumors. Why do they do it, is another question. But the fact is, once it is out there, it’s out there. For everyone else in the world to hear, see, watch, read – and react to.
Can we no longer regard the photographer, film maker, or journalist as an “artist” or a “professional”, when just about ANY Joe Schmoe can share a photo album, post a video, or write an editorial and syndicate it all over the world? The web has become a platform for otherwise unknown but emerging new artists and writers, and in no way does or will Joe’s work compare to the quality of those at their craft. What Long rather sarcastically (is that a bit hypocritical – to call for professionalism in such a whiny, antagonistic tone? Isn’t his last line the very type of school yard taunting we see too much of on the web? ), but I think rightfully, points out is that if Joe Schmoe is calling himself a “journalist” and is exercising his right to “free speech”, then he should be held to the same legal consequences for his slandering, racism, copyright infringement, and unfounded reporting no matter how much of a right he has to publish it. With every right comes responsibility. Ask Don Imus. Rosie may insist he has a right to free speech, but when you make irresponsible comments like he did, you should be stripped of your profession. And go back to just being Joe Schmoe.
Look, I read PerezHilton.com. It’s a celebrity gossip blog. Its frivolous and flippant, self-indulgent and an intellectual void (I admit it!!). In it, the author, who was indeed a nobody Joe Schmoe til he made this blog, posts photos from other papparazzi-sharing sites that he often doctors with slanderous labels like “whore” or “man slut”, publishes rumors about celebs from “tips” he gets on the street or via email like who is gay and doesn’t know it or who is in AA, and generally types up his opinion on just about everyone and everything they do, wear, say, eat, sing, etc., and he is not particularly nice about it unless he likes them that day.
Once his blog blew up in popularity, Perez was quite quickly sued for copyright infringement which has forced him to cite the sources and get permission for the use of all of his borrowed images, and he gets plenty of defamation threats (and physical threats!) from celebs. He also now cites the sources of his “tips.” He may be covering his own ass, but he certainly is still pretty cruel at times.
Is civility dead? It sure is under fire and just as technology has exploited and glorified it, technology has been taking the blame for it. I get a bit bristled when a young man doesn’t give up his seat for an elderly person on the bus. Was that same man on the bus too tuned into his iPod to notice the old man? Perhaps! Look around on the T some time and count how many people have earphones on. And don’t miss the jerk blabbing on her cell phone about personal stuff, as if no one is there! Is virtual reality compromising our view of what is reality and how we live in it?
I love the internet. I believe in its power to connect and empower people to share ideas and achieve a global understanding of one another. It has its risks and its benefits and as it grows, the boundaries we try to lasso around it stretch and contract.
So why didn’t I keep my match.com profile up for more than 3 minutes? Delete. I guess I wanna still believe in the real world.
Related Links :
Miss Manners for the web
The Blogosphere, Where a Tawdry Culture Goes to Die
Blogger’s Code of Conduct
CBS fires Don Imus